A VALEDICTION FORBIDDING MOURNING.

by John Donne

AS virtuous men pass mildly away,
And whisper to their souls to go,
Whilst some of their sad friends do say,
“Now his breath goes,” and some say, “No.”

So let us melt, and make no noise,                                       5
No tear-floods, nor sigh-tempests move ;
‘Twere profanation of our joys
To tell the laity our love.

Moving of th’ earth brings harms and fears ;
Men reckon what it did, and meant ;                              10
But trepidation of the spheres,
Though greater far, is innocent.

Dull sublunary lovers’ love
—Whose soul is sense—cannot admit
Of absence, ’cause it doth remove                                     15
The thing which elemented it.

But we by a love so much refined,
That ourselves know not what it is,
Inter-assurèd of the mind,
Care less, eyes, lips and hands to miss.                           20

Our two souls therefore, which are one,
Though I must go, endure not yet
A breach, but an expansion,
Like gold to aery thinness beat.

If they be two, they are two so                                          25
As stiff twin compasses are two ;
Thy soul, the fix’d foot, makes no show
To move, but doth, if th’ other do.

And though it in the centre sit,
Yet, when the other far doth roam,                                30
It leans, and hearkens after it,
And grows erect, as that comes home.

Such wilt thou be to me, who must,
Like th’ other foot, obliquely run ;
Thy firmness makes my circle just,                                    35
And makes me end where I begun.


Source:
Donne, John. Poems of John Donne. vol I.
E. K. Chambers, ed.
London, Lawrence & Bullen, 1896. 51-52.


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Yes, you read that right… Anything worth doing is worth doing badly at first.

Say it with me now… say it out loud…

Anything Worth Doing is
Worth Doing Badly at First.

Take a moment and let that settle in…

I have a spiritual mentor who for years shared the above thought with me and for many, many dinner conversation I would repeat that back in my head as … ummm…  isn’t that supposed to be anything worth doing is worth doing well.

As a now recovering perfectionist I know that at an even deeper level my subconscious was drowning out all of it with “anything worth doing is worth doing perfectly or not at all.” Wow – did that rule my life for a long, long time… keeping me frozen in fear – not able to dare to do it different – to risk – to try – to stumble, blunder, fall, God forbid… fail… (GASP!)

Thank God, I finally got it. No one can sit down at a piano and yoga-babyimmediately be a master, Malcolm Gladwell writes in Outliers that it takes 10,000 hours of action to be a master at anything. So, I can’t open my mouth and decide to speak in fluent Spanish… or stand up from my desk strike the perfect yoga pose… or… you get the idea. We all have to start somewhere… and practice… and stumble… and blunder… and fall… and yes, absolutely fail sometimes.

Today I try to live in the spirit of these statements…

  • Dare to do it different
  • Ready, FIRE!, Aim
  • Fail Fast
  • Anything Worth Doing is Worth Doing Badly at First
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img_8705Right around Christmas time we had a stray cat adopt us… which worked out well seeing that I had a owning a cat on 2 visions boards and had asked AK & The ZMan for a cat for Christmas. Awesome – now we had one that The Universe had delivered to for free and she was able to hold her own with 2 boys and 2 dogs… not sure which one is worse.

Shortly after that I realized that is was not our charming personality that had won her over – no it was the warmth and dry-ness of our home and the ready supply of cat food… things that were very important to this… you guessed it… soon to be MamaCat. And thus began our Adventure of MamaCat & her 5Kittens.

8 weeks later, this particular piece of our Kitten Adventure is coming to end in a beautiful crescendo of kitten-ness:

  1. Kitten distribution will officially begin this weekend
  2. Schipul (the company I work for) and The Houston Human Society ( now officially a client, whoot!)  are partnering up
  3. The Schipul Blog post for Trend Tuesday was written by Caitlin Kaluza (soon to be Ruby’s new mom) all about twitter trends and squeezing as much as you can into your tweets. Trust me, click the link – it’s relevant.

img_8755This week seems a spinning mosaic of animal adoptions, humane treatment of animals, spay and neutering, twitter, blogs, and Schipulites with the mortor being — kittens.

So, I am taking this opportunity to give a shout out to the Houston Human Society and advocate for Spay or Neutering your pets.

The Human Society not only offers adoptions – they offer limited vetinary services for your pets. Its a great way to love your pet and fund the Human Society’s efforts:

For those who will participating in Kitten Distribution:

CAT VACCINATION PACKAGES:
(Office visit  $10)  Saturdays and Sundays: $20 office visit  $30 doctor exams
Kitten- 101
BEGINNERS (8-12 wks. of age)
$22

Spay/Neuter Surgery (plus $10 office visit) – $30
Post Operative Pain Medication – $8

Our kitten family will be expanding this weekend… not to worry, from Facebook Fan Pages to reunions – we have all kinds of kitten fun cooking up to make sure you get your fix.

And remember… it takes a villiage to raise a kitten!

(or something like that)

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